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It's been a little over 2 years since my last update... which is probably par for course right?
I haven't had much to say because there hasn't been anything really negative in my life going on. It's been so stable and good. She really was the one. We communicate, she tries to at least, and that's more important than anything else. We are married and I am so happy to be with her. Life is better with her and better because of her.
Work is into it's 5th year now, which I think is the longest I've ever been in one place. I'm up to 2 weeks vacation now, yay! That's really exciting, it's the most I've ever gotten.
Financial constraints are still present, but not so bad. My wife is an accountant and very good with money. She's helped me become more responsible, reluctantly, but I need it. I wish she would be less frugal for her own sake. She deserves nice things some times too. But she doesn't like getting things for herself. It's not a bad thing I guess, but I don't want her to go without when we can afford it.
I've done virtually no traditional art this year, but I've done a bunch of graphic design lately. If I think about it I'll upload it soon! Wouldn't that be exciting, new content! Most of the work has been designs for disc golf discs. That's taken up a huge spot in my life. I love the sport greatly, though I miss the friend that got me into it. He moved away not long ago. It's not the same without him... though I'm grateful to have an activity to share with my wife in the nice weather. It's nice that she plays with me.
Oh, I won full custody of my daughter. It's been a while now. I'm so happy to have her with me every day. I think about it a lot, and am reminded how infrequently father's get custody by little things in life. Anyway my wife is proving to be an excellent mother, if a bit hesitant. They love each other though, so that's what counts the most.
So until next time, maybe 2017? Keep Calm and Disc On
I haven't had much to say because there hasn't been anything really negative in my life going on. It's been so stable and good. She really was the one. We communicate, she tries to at least, and that's more important than anything else. We are married and I am so happy to be with her. Life is better with her and better because of her.
Work is into it's 5th year now, which I think is the longest I've ever been in one place. I'm up to 2 weeks vacation now, yay! That's really exciting, it's the most I've ever gotten.
Financial constraints are still present, but not so bad. My wife is an accountant and very good with money. She's helped me become more responsible, reluctantly, but I need it. I wish she would be less frugal for her own sake. She deserves nice things some times too. But she doesn't like getting things for herself. It's not a bad thing I guess, but I don't want her to go without when we can afford it.
I've done virtually no traditional art this year, but I've done a bunch of graphic design lately. If I think about it I'll upload it soon! Wouldn't that be exciting, new content! Most of the work has been designs for disc golf discs. That's taken up a huge spot in my life. I love the sport greatly, though I miss the friend that got me into it. He moved away not long ago. It's not the same without him... though I'm grateful to have an activity to share with my wife in the nice weather. It's nice that she plays with me.
Oh, I won full custody of my daughter. It's been a while now. I'm so happy to have her with me every day. I think about it a lot, and am reminded how infrequently father's get custody by little things in life. Anyway my wife is proving to be an excellent mother, if a bit hesitant. They love each other though, so that's what counts the most.
So until next time, maybe 2017? Keep Calm and Disc On
Is this what love feels like?
So, as with most of my journal entries, this one is many months later than the last one.
Updates:
The last woman I referred to in my journal was older... but not wiser. She was too much a child still. Despite my willingness to grow with her, she was not yet ready to have someone in her life. I was sad then, but I celebrate the loss now.
I am currently in a relationship with a woman whom I think may be the one I've always searched for. She is smart and funny. We are often finishing each others' thoughts and sentences. We like similar things. We enjoy doing things together. And we have not even once fought seriously. We COMMUNICATE!!! It's a
The last year of our lives on Earth...
I killed my facebook account and left a lot of "friends" behind in the process. I don't miss them. I don't need reminders of things I didn't want or couldn't achieve.
I reconnected this year with some friends. I don't think I lost anyone important... but I can gladly say I've recently gained a significant love interest. Someone older than me, experienced in the ways of the world, stunningly beautiful... flawed... but perfect for me. I've grown enough recently to accept my own shortcomings... and with that I've learned to accept others'. I always considered myself a patient person... and while that as mostly true there was always a thing or t
Things change...
... and things stay the same.
So... my divorce is finally final. She can go get married now. Not saying I'm jealous exactly... cause I know she is relationship dependent, but I think it's a bit reckless.
Work is going great... boring, but great.
Cancer is still gone despite a scare in the levels last month.
Uhm... love life is kind of up and down though. I started using match.com ... with results... had a few women approach me. One was so close to perfect, but I guess I learned that I'm searching for a soul mate and I ended it quickly. So the search continues.
I've had a few dreams lately about Emily... the woman I know it would never w
Post Holidaze
So Christmas has finally come and gone. The gifts are all open and taken care of. The girls' new bikes are in the shed, yet to be ridden because of the stupid weather. It's either been too much snow or too muddy every time they've been here. Oh well, they will get to ride them eventually.
I've been enjoying the extra time with the girls a whole lot. As it stands I live with my Dad still so I'm not really looking to get into a relationship. I know I want to get my own apartment in the coming months, just waiting until I get taxes back. Just hope it will be reasonably affordable.
Anyway, talk later.
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